Friends? Friends. Friends?

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There are times na napapaisip tayo kung kaibigan rin ba talaga ang turing sa atin ng mga itinuturing nating kaibigan. Kasi ikaw lang ang nag-eeffort to communicate. Ikaw lang din ang nagbibigay ng effort para makapag boding kayo. Ikaw ang nagsisimula ng mga conversations. 


Kung ganito ang setup ng friendship nyo, magdalawang isip ka na. Hindi na yan healthy at baka wala naman kasing friendship to begin with. Baka naman kasi pinipilit mo lang ang sarili mo sa company ng ibang tao na nakikisama lang sayo. 


Kaya kung feeling mo that you don’t get the same energy that you’re giving to them, it’s better to cut ties with them. You’re better off without them. Don’t beg for their time. Don’t chase. 


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